Spouses!!!!!

I know I posted today but I saw this on Natasha's blog and had to play:

What is his name?-
Jay Calvin Harper

How long have you been together?-
24 years on Feb. 19th. ( Now Natasha, that is downright scary - Jay and I started on Presidents holiday, did you?)

How long did you date?-
4 years 6 monhts

How old is he?-
(I don't think he would like me to answer that one!)

Who eats more?-
Jay used to but I think we are about the same now.

Who is taller?-
That one is easy. Jay! I still fit under his chin unless I have heels on. Sunday I stood on the bottom step to hug him. I kind of liked it. I didn't have to reach up. He thought I was a bit silly.

Who said "I love you" first?-
Actually Jay did. I think I was shocked! I answered back but wasn't sure at the time that I meant it. It took me 2 days to figure out I really did.

Who does the laundry?-
Jay does...... Although we do have an ongoing argument about it. Neither of the us think the other does it right.

Who does the dishes?-
That is what kids are for.... Kidding.... Most of the time I do.

Who sleeps on the right side of the bed?-
I do... Jay likes to be closest to the bathroom but when we have tried it the other way, neither of us sleeps well.

Who pays the bills?-
I do..... I think we both hate to pay them equally though.

Who mows the lawn?-
Again, that is what kids are for.... Sometimes I do because I think it is fun.

Who cooks dinner?-
Jay does. I hate to cook and would rather do dishes... Whoever cooks doesn't have to clean, That is the deal!

Who sings better?-
Easy, Jay hands down... I couldn't sing if someone did it for me.

Who drives when you are together?-
Jay.... After all, he is the professional.

Who is more stubborn?-
That would be me.... I don't often really care but when I want something, I usually get my way.


Who is smarter?-
I think Jay is, but smart is relative. I am more creative. Jay is more intellectually intelligent but I have a better memory. When it comes to smarts, I am no slouch either. I think we compliment each other well.

Who kissed who first?-
I kissed Jay first..... He spent the next 10 minutes telling me how I had ruined everything that he was saving himself for marriage. I felt so bad, I can't believe actually believed him.....

Who Proposed?-
Jay did. I didn't believe him. He had to fly back to Utah for me to believe he was serious.

Who is more sensitive?-
I think Jay is.... I am more of a cynic.

Who has more friends?-
Me. But again friends are relative. Jay has friendships that have lasted 20+ years. Mine don't seem to last as long.

Who has more siblings?-
I do... Same 7 siblings as Greg. . . but Jay is close with 6 kids in his family.

Who wears the pants in the family?-
Jay does! Well, technically we both wear slacks but I do have dresses on sometimes.... hee hee hee. As for leadership in the family, we believe in equal opportunity to screw up.